How To Change A Negative Outlook to Positive

How To Change A Negative Outlook to Positive

With reports of the latest terrorist attack, volcano eruptions, tornados and other violent storms, global warming, a political system that seems caught in an endless impasse and drug addiction on the increase, life can seem filled with negativity.   Our society can be...
But Still … Two Ways To Surrender Disappointment

But Still … Two Ways To Surrender Disappointment

After living in my house for 30 years, my 60-year-old kitchen finally got the update it desperately needed. The knotty pine cabinets and custom linoleum floor were in style at least seven styles ago!   As one of the final steps in the kitchen renovation, we replaced...
Realizing Being Popular Isn’t All It Promises To Be

Realizing Being Popular Isn’t All It Promises To Be

In grade school, I was never one of the popular girls. I wanted to be, but… Then one day in eighth grade all my school shirts were dirty and Mom let me wear a white blouse. She wouldn’t let me wear white regularly because it got dirty too easily. On that particular...
Love Of Money And The Image Of God

Love Of Money And The Image Of God

What would you do if you were offered an annual bonus of $3.6 million? Would your first reaction be that it was not enough?   Sam Polk’s memoir For the Love of Money is a fascinating read. Polk writes about his rise to senior trader at one of the largest hedge funds...
How To Break The Toxic Habit Of Judging People

How To Break The Toxic Habit Of Judging People

As the Sunday sermon began, I became quite distracted. Several minutes later when I had separate myself from the distractions and focused on the sermon, I felt like the preacher was talking far more forcefully than necessary. He also seemed to be missing the real...

Judge Softly

Contrary to popular opinion, the proverb not to judge another before walking a mile in another persons moccasins or shoes does not come from Native Americans. Rather it originates in a poem written in 1895 by Mary T. Lathrap and focuses on our penchant for making...